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It’s the beginning of a new year, but if you have a teen who’s a Senior (or even a Junior) in high school, that new-year-feel will be gone before you know it. Because in the blink of an eye you’ll be in the middle of graduation season! And beyond a doubt, the most touching occasions I have had in my homeschooling life have been witnessing our local homeschool co-op’s graduation ceremony.

Crafting a Homeschool Graduation Ceremony

While there are certainly pros and cons to joining a co-op or local support group, being able to coordinate and celebrate the capstone of your homeschool efforts with a group of like-minded families ranks up there as a major “pro.”

I mean, how do you send off the son with whom you’ve conquered a learning “challenge” together? Or the daughter who had to work through serious self-doubt and self-criticism despite her obvious (to you, at least) artistic brilliance? All those years of trying and tossing out math curricula…figuring out learning styles…discovering how to motivate them (and yourself) during the inevitable times of discouragement…celebrating successes and milestones as they also inevitably occurred?

We’ve graduated four out of our five children so far (#5 is entering high school this fall). And even though each graduation was unique, let me give you a general outline of our process that may motivate you to craft your own graduation ceremony. Please note: this is how we plan a graduation in our local homeschool association. You can do this with your own group as well or pull together a few families that have been an important part of your homeschool journey over the years or even do this on your own! Consider and use the helpful info and disregard the rest.

Homeschool Graduation Prep – 9 months out

We usually put out a call to our members when we start back to school in the fall. Many times, we’ll have a family or two join our group at that time, just so they can be a part of the festivities! These early meetings are actually fun, as we get to know each other a little better and discuss our dreams and plans.

Action steps:

  • Decide on the location – We usually try to use a church that one of the graduating students attends. The venue will definitely depend on how many students you have and what your budget is.
  • Decide on the date – It’s never too early to get the date on the calendar!
  • Decide on the menu for fellowship after the ceremony – Will you have cheese and crackers or heavy hors d’oeuervs or something else? Will there be a cake or punch? Getting everyone on the same page here will help everyone agree on a budget.
  • Start thinking about who will deliver the commencement address – It’s also never too early to get on their calendar, so talk about it together and start asking around.
  • What colors will the graduates wear? Or will everyone do their own thing? Neither one is right or wrong; what’s important is that everyone is in agreement.
  • Create an action plan – Decide who will do what, if necessary, until the next meeting. Decide on when and where you will meet next. Follow up with an email to all participants summarizing all the decisions made, and what’s in the works.

Homeschool Graduation Prep – 6 months out

Time flies, and before you know it, a few months have passed and there’s not much more time left.  Use this meeting as an opportunity to start talking about the actual ceremony and what you want to see happen. By this time, the venue, date, speaker, and menu are decided, so it’s time to start ironing things out for the program (if you want one). But there are other things to talk about as well:

Action steps:

  • Decide on the ceremony. Will you have entrance/exit music? Will you have a slideshow or show pictures of the graduates? How will handing over the diplomas be handled?
  • Decide on the program. Will you have one? Who will do it? Look into how much will it cost. A great way to save money while still having a stylish program is to buy a ream of linen paper (or another style or color you like) and print it yourself.
  • Has everyone ordered their caps and gowns? What about diplomas? Graduation announcements and/or invitations ordered?
  • Will there be special photo ops for the Seniors? Will there be any group shots taken in advance? Or is everyone on their own? Add dates to the calendar!
  • Finalize any menu and budget decisions remaining, who will handle the money and how payment/s will be handled. (At our last ceremony, with a class of 14, each graduate paid ~$100 which covered our venue (and staff clean up after we were finished), a small honorarium for our speaker, and light refreshments afterward. Our Association provides a cake for the occasion each year.)

Homeschool Graduation Prep – 1 month out

This is when the rubber meets the road and it’s down to the wire! If you’re having a reception afterward, now is the time to enlist help for serving and clean up. Tie up any loose ends from the action steps you’ve established and check in with families of the graduates to see if anyone needs anything. Also:

  • Schedule graduation rehearsal, if you think you’ll need it. (We often rehearse both an entrance and exit, as well as run through the program.)
  • Schedule and/or make sure someone will be shopping for the menu and is willing to oversee the refreshments after the ceremony.

Short on time?

If the concept of a “ceremony” is a new one and you’re short on time, be creative! Perhaps your church will allow you to do a short recognition of graduates after or during a Sunday service; email special friends and family and do a weekend celebration at home with a short toast when you confer the diploma; plan a fancy dinner at home or the graduate’s favorite restaurant and make a special presentation at dessert…

Consider this: for as long as you’ve homeschooled, you’ve focused on an individualized approach that best suits your child. As you celebrate this capstone event in their education, why not hold on tight to that attitude?!

Graduation Day

Once you’ve arrived at “zero hour”, there’s not much left to do but enjoy the day. No, wait, there IS an action step. Make sure you’ve got at least a tissue or two tucked away, and thoroughly stay in the moment!

Enjoy the occasion…you’ve ALL earned it!

 

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About Pat Fenner

Attempting for many years to nail Jello to the wall, Pat Fenner has been managing to keep up with her brood of 5, celebrate her 20th year of homeschooling, maintain some sort of domestic order, and blog at Breakthrough Homeschooling. Someday she'll have time to pursue hobbies such as reading, gardening and cooking more than spaghetti, but until then, she'll just keep on homeschooling and encouraging others to do the same. Join her there, and sign up to get inspiration and resources to creatively parent teens and homeschool through high school.

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